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Friday, May 23, 2008

Some Things Never Change

So, you may be wondering what's going on now? Well... Cruella still has Borderline Personality Disorder, she's still Bipolar, she's still basically non-functioning, she's on & off her meds and she's not in therapy. She's unemployed again. She can't seem to hold down a job for more than three months before she either gets fired for chronic lateness or excessive absences. Either that or she has to quit because she's being grossly mistreated or abused or she's being sexually harassed or she's being stalked or some other self-fabricated delusion. One of my favorite ways to describe her (without using profanity) is that she's "predictably unpredictable" and you just never know what to expect.

You may also remember that Cruella was supposed to begin unsupervised, overnight visitation with the children back in January of this year when she finally got her own apartment, (thanks to section 8 welfare.) That was put on hold due to Lilly's allegations of years of being sexually abused by Snake. Well... a CPS investigation has been done along with a police investigation and even though Lilly filed a formal complaint and Snake actually admitted to some of the allegations; because the last time that it happened was over three years ago when Snake was a minor and the allegations did not surface until after Snake turned 18, apparently nothing can be done unless Lilly admits to actual intercourse. (You just gotta love our fucking justice system!)

Both investigations are now closed. Lilly is in regular therapy now and is doing about as well as could be expected , considering what she's been through and it is suspected that she's gone through much more than she's been able to divulge so far. There has been no mention of overnight visits from Cruella or from the kids. I have not heard "BOO" from Ms. Sleepy since February. Snake actually got a job supposedly, which would be his first ever in almost 19 years on this planet. (We'll see how long that lasts.) I have to say it's been a little bit too quiet. I hope this isn't the calm before the storm. The State Police are sending me Snake's admission of guilt so that I can add it to my arsenal for when and if "The Battle For Overnights" begins. I'm standing firm in my position that I cannot allow my children to sleep overnight in the same house or to be left alone with an admitted incestuous sexual deviant who, and I quote "just wanted to practice" and called it "fake sex."

Signed, Regular Guy


  1. Kudos to you stay the course and keep fighting the good fight! You have to fight to the death to protect those kids! You are such an awesome Dad!

  2. Thanks kat... for me... there is no other alternative and thanks! that's really sweet of you to say :-)

  3. Documentation and organization is of paramount importance.

    I'm certainly glad for me and sad for you at the same time that, for now, I am not dealing with situations such as you do with Snake... though I do worry about the situations we're my boys are sleeping in the same bed as her psycho sister.

    Always keep your fingers on the pulse and be ready to move swiftly... despite the barriers provided by the Divorce & Custody Cartels.

  4. Thanks for the comment mister-m... that is one of the reasons that I refuse to speak to Cruella on the phone other than to avoid confrontation... I let all her calls go to voice mail and save them... any communication from me is via certified mail or text message

    I have eyes and ears all over the place and ready to jam at the drop of a dime! ;-)

  5. Un-freaking-believable. I am just at a total loss for words, RG. All I can do is sit here and shake my head.

  6. Yeah...I do that a lot... lol


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